Listening to God is allowing him to actually influence our day to day decision making and growing to care about what He cares about. 

My sheep listen to my voice; I know them, and they follow me. 
John 10:27  

If you find yourself in a position where you can honestly say, “God has never spoken to me,” then you might ask yourself, Why should God speak to me? What am I doing in life that would make speaking to me a reasonable thing for him to do? Are we in business together in life? Or am I in business just for myself, trying to “use a little God” to advance my projects? 

Dallas Willard

Matt is talking about what it actually means to Listen:

09 - Listening Prayer

Matt is talking about Journalling:

Matt is talking about the book “Walking with God”

09 Walking with God